More genius from my a-lister blog friend Hugh McLeod of http://www.gapingvoid.com/
There is power in words and especially names. TSCFELOMY (The So-Called Former Ex-Love Of My Life) will henceforth never be mentioned again on this blog. And if she is she will be referred to as SWMNBN. She Who Must Not Be Named. Oh, for fuck fuck fuckitty fuck's sake!
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just catching up. may i say...sea rabbit it a genius. and your sponosor is right too.
i'm going to repeat those words to you as needed.
and almost a year of sobriety and 3 weeks no cigs. dude, reach around and pat yourself on the back.
Keyser... this is still too much honor you are giving to her... Don't you think you are allowing this woman a lot of power that she probably doesn't really have?? Originally, HWMNBN is a very powerful witch... The person I hear you talking about since very long isn't a powerful person, but in your eyes... because... well... because I have no idea why... ;-) But, for us, here, your loyal readers, she seems to be a poor little thing with not much of a spine... A real asshole, to talk frankly.... Someone weak enough to go for the whatever she may find at place of bidding all she have on the one who is throwing the red carpet under her feet, no matter what... Many women are only waiting and dreaming of a love like that... You can give it where it will be honored and appreciated... and returned with benefices...
It reminds me so much of my year with the Black pimp... It took me all my strenght to walk away from that man who was killing me... emotionnaly... That guy was never there when I needed him... but showing up at the most unexpected occasions to take me back under is dirty wing... but much more to take for him the little I could have to give, and it wasn't love that he wanted... That woman you love so much seems one that kind for me... No, she isn't a pimp... but she isn't after love either...
Why this woman is keeping seeing you? Because she knows you are allowing her a power on you... she loves to know that she have that power over you... no matter how bad she is with you, no matter how hurting she is for you... I experienced that... it is one of the most hurting feeling I ever had...
Now... it is your job to show her that she has no power any more... that this power you gave her is gone forever... That you are th one with the power, to give her power on you or not... because this is the only truth...
You are doing so good in every other decision you take... the drinking stuff, for someone who is often playing in bar just amazes me... and now, nicotine?? You are strong and very determined... Applied the same rules you do for alcohol to that woman.... She have to be considered as an addiction like the rest... She is bad for you, no matter how attractive she may seems... And with those you may meet in futur... You want some results, you know what to do to obtain them... Think about you... What is good for you, what is making you feel happy and fullfilled... Your needs, your wishes, where you want to be in a relationship... and at the moment it is not going your way, well, yes... you can try to negociate... but not for too long... You have to see where the other is standing in order to know if where you are going with her is really the place you want to go... First, ys... love yourself... be good to yourself...
I know... easier to say than to do... but you already did so much, so much... It is very ok to take care of your physical, and I have a lot to learn from you in this area... but it is even better to take care of your emotions, and know that they will be respected by any s.o. you may have in your life...
God! I don't feel like your aunty anymore... but like your big sister...lolololol...
Well... this is how my little brother (He is the genius, Lime... not me... ) is talking to me... ;-))and since I am listening to him, it works quite well... ;-)
Just keep your head up.... for all the chances and love you gave to someone who just didn't know what to do with it... Too bad, poor girl...
Be proud of you to be able of such love... It is rare... and because of its rarity, it has to be appreciated... ;-)
Congrats on the coming up year and the three weeks, and also for making a decision, albeit a difficult one regarding your ex. Sea Rabbit's advice is great (both posts!)and I hope you take it. Right on. Forgive me, but when you mentioned "she who should not be named" it made me think of the Harry Potter books where they called Voldemort "he whose name should not be mentioned" or something like that. Voldemort was someone best avoiding...
Women, eh?
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=W_2UltMm5Gw
xxx
A White Magic Cure for a Black Magic Woman?
AkA...prayer ;)
This works for me, brother. I hope your heart heals gently. x.o.x.o
I am bonded in my heart to someone who does not share this bond.
I feel so drawn to HWMNBN, while she is not drawn to me.
Please, HP, disconnect my heart from this longing within me that does not serve.
I release this person into Your hands.
May the ropes that bind my heart be cut.
May they not bind me.
May they not bind her.
I release her that I might be released.
Retract the silent hooks that I have in her.
Bring back to me my power and my love.
Cut the cord that chemically ties me to her.
Free me from her.
Free her from me.
May we find pease.
Free us both.
hey that's an awesome prayer there from Lolly. I may just use that myself!
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